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- 1. Learn to love yourself and accept your body
- 2. Have a scientific and open understanding of sex
- 3. Clear emotional expression and the courage to communicate desire
- 4. Have a sense of boundaries and know how to say "no"
- 5. Sex is not a tool, it is a choice
- 6. Know how to enjoy and be responsible
- 7. Don’t judge yourself or others based on their sexual experience
- 8. The healing power of sexual shame
- 9. Be more authentic and comfortable in your relationships
- 10. Sex is energy and freedom
- summary:
Women with high sexual quotient (SQ) are not only more comfortable in intimate relationships, but also show maturity, confidence, and clear boundaries in psychology, self-cognition, and interpersonal interactions. The following are the ten common characteristics of women with high sexual quotient:
1. Learn to love yourself and accept your body
She doesn’t look at her body with shame or criticism, and even if it’s not a “perfect body,” she can appreciate her sexiness and uniqueness.
2. Have a scientific and open understanding of sex
She has knowledge about sex and neither over-mythologizes it nor avoids talking about it. She can look at sexual needs, sexual behaviors and sexual health rationally.
3. Clear emotional expression and the courage to communicate desire
She does not regard sex as a topic that "cannot be discussed" and can express her preferences, boundaries and discomfort to her partner honestly.
4. Have a sense of boundaries and know how to say "no"
She respects the sovereignty of her own body and knows how to firmly say no to inappropriate or dangerous situations without being swayed by emotions or others.
5. Sex is not a tool, it is a choice
She does not use sex to gain affection, control the other person, or force herself to please others. Her sexual behavior is voluntary, informed, and enjoyable.
6. Know how to enjoy and also know how to be responsible
She cherishes the intimacy and pleasure that sex brings, has basic awareness of contraception and sexually transmitted disease prevention, and is responsible for herself and her partner.
7. Don’t judge yourself or others based on their sexual experience
She understands that everyone's personality grows at different paces, and there is no need to label oneself as right or wrong with labels such as "pure" or "indulgent".
8. The healing power of sexual shame
She may have experienced repression and shame, but she has learned to heal herself with understanding, knowledge and love, and is no longer trapped by the old constraints.
9. Be more authentic and comfortable in your relationships
In a relationship, she doesn't pretend, hold back, or hide. She can truly be herself and allow the other person to be himself. She doesn't rely on sex to maintain the relationship, but connects with sincerity.
10. Sex is energy and freedom
For her, sex is a source of vitality and creativity. Sex is not a shackle, but a bridge to the integration of body and mind.
summary:
Women with high sexual quotient are not "sexy" butSelf-knowledge, freedom, self-love;
She is not a "sexual expert";Individuals with inner maturity, clear boundaries, and emotional transparency.
Her charm comes from an inner balance of “not catering to, not escaping, and not suppressing”.