5 tips from sexologists for improving your sex life

　　

     With busy work schedules, many couples have become complacent, believing they have too much to do besides work. Consequently, they unknowingly neglect their relationship and sex life, becoming mere "economic animals." However, according to a report in the British newspaper *The Guardian* in early July, renowned British sexologist Lucy Mangan believes that no matter how busy people are, they have the need and right to enjoy sex. She has also selected "five magic weapons" to help busy people enjoy sexual happiness.

     NO.1. Finding new sensitive areas 

     The human body has many unexplored erogenous zones. For example, many women have an extremely sensitive area on their lower back. If a man can find this area and stimulate it continuously, he can easily and quickly arouse her sexual desire.

     NO.2. Seeking help from high-tech weapons

     Cell phones and emails may reduce opportunities for face-to-face communication, but they can have the opposite effect on enhancing libido. Regularly sending a passionate text message to your partner can keep your relationship in sync. However, it's important to note that text messages only work when they're kept secret. Therefore, couples might consider creating their own private "code" to express their feelings.

     No. 3. Learn to communicate with your eyes.

     All sexologists agree that communication is essential, but they also point out that too much verbal communication isn't necessarily a good thing, because men's ability to express emotions is really not that great. Therefore, lovers can learn to communicate with their eyes: closed eyes mean "I'm enjoying it," a slight frown means "this isn't good," and a blink means "I'm looking forward to it."

     NO.4 Role-playing 

     Dressing up as a delivery person, nurse, nanny, or celebrity can have unexpected positive effects in your sex life. However, for men, unless their partner explicitly expresses a preference for being treated "strongly and roughly," avoid acting like a warrior. Generally, women prefer gentle, tender caresses rather than rough, direct approaches.

     NO.5 Playing Zodiac Games

     These kinds of games may not be scientifically accurate, but they are very fun. Busy people can buy a book like "Sex and Horoscopes" and follow the instructions and steps to enjoy "sex" with their partner.