Have you ever committed the ten taboos in a relationship?

Subtitle #e#

Based on the editorial team's investigation and the valuable experiences contributed by netizens from China and abroad, we have compiled the following ten major taboos in relationships. Knowing how to avoid these mistakes is sometimes more important than knowing how to date.

 

　　Misde 1: Inviting someone at the last minute

It's not impolite for a man and a woman to meet again at 9 PM after only meeting at 7 PM. The sudden longing to see each other is actually quite touching. However, if he says, "Hey! I was supposed to have dinner with a friend, but I had to cancel at the last minute. Are you free now?" that kind of person is obviously annoying.

#p#Subtitle#e#

 

　　Second offense: Mentioning his ex-girlfriend

This is perhaps one of the most common mistakes couples make. Speaking well of his ex-girlfriend in front of you indicates he hasn't fully accepted the breakup. Criticizing his ex-girlfriend in front of you implies that if you break up with him in the future, his opinion of you won't be much better. The best approach is to never mention your past relationship again.

#p#Subtitle#e#

 

　　Mistake #4: Taking out the condom too early or too late

Here's an unpleasant experience shared by a netizen. She went on a first date with a super cute guy. They met at a pub at 11 pm, and by 1 am, they were both getting along well. She was mentally prepared to kiss him, but then he said, "Let's go! I've brought everything I need." She asked, "What are you talking about?" He replied, "Condoms!" What do these guys take girls for? However, this serious mistake at least has one redeeming quality: letting the girl know early on that you're a clueless jerk means she won't waste any more time hanging out with you.

Alternatively, there's an even worse scenario: you've been dating a guy for a while, and tonight, with everything in the air, you're determined to take things to the next level. Everything's going smoothly; you undress, lie down comfortably, and embrace each other joyfully, until… in the darkness, you suddenly hear his voice: “Did you think of the one I was thinking of? Because I forgot!”

You've already invited him to your home, so why would you need to keep ultra-thin, sensitive condoms in your bedside table drawer? You're not a sex worker. At this point, you'd better get up, get dressed, and ask him to go home by himself. Not being able to produce a condom in a pinch is simply a sign of incompetence!

#p#Subtitle#e#

But who got the helmet? The guy, of course, did. His reason was, "I don't want to be photographed by paparazzi." So the girl called a taxi home herself. Later, when the guy called her again, she refused to answer!

#p#Subtitle#e#

 

　　Sixth offense: Looking away while kissing.

In a crowded public place, what could be more embarrassing than seeing a couple kissing in public? Yes, it's when the man is kissing you and glancing at you with obvious interest.

We all agree that where to look while kissing is a real problem. Staring at each other with your noses in between will definitely make your gaze unfocused. Closing your eyes... please! It'll look like you're in a melodramatic soap opera. Unfortunately, the only acceptable answer is to choose one of these two.

#p#Subtitle#e#

 

　　Seventh offense: Giving you secondhand gifts

Inside a beautiful box lies a ring, a pair of candlesticks, or a sweater, but something's amiss. While the gift is in pristine condition, its wrapping paper seems slightly wrinkled. This is because the gift wasn't originally bought for you, but for your ex-girlfriend. She left too soon to accept this sentiment.

After discovering this secret, you couldn't resist giving the gift away, as if it were contagious, forgetting that the recipient also knew it. On some unfortunate occasion, everyone finally discovered that this gift had actually gone through so many recycling cycles, leaving both the original buyer and the final recipient as frustrated as you were.

 

　　Misde #8: Refusing to disclose important details

What are important details? Children, pets, spouse, and anyone you have dependents on. Hiding these details when you're planning to develop a deeper relationship with someone can have negative consequences.

If you insist on this low-key approach, you two will have to find a secret place in an unfamiliar city to "make love." For the other person who is honest, this is not only hurtful but also unfair. Similarly, if he only starts introducing you to his friends and family after you've been dating for more than six months, this person is probably hiding a major secret from you. Better be careful!