How I got pregnant step by step

I wanted to try to have a baby in June, but the cycle was too long, 35 days. At that time, I didn't know about PL test strips or leucorrhea stringing, so I had AA on the 14th day of my period. At first, I thought I had to have AA every day, but it made my husband too nervous and tired. After AA twice, I developed psychological impotence.

His *** led to the June defeat.

We continued our efforts in July and took his temperature. My husband's condition improved, but it was very reluctant and we were ultimately unsuccessful.

On August 8, my period came. I was so disappointed. I thought I was really an "old hen that doesn't lay eggs" (what my husband often says). I felt very sad and really wanted to be a DINK. After coming here and reading the forum hosted by Bobo, I learned a lot of knowledge, such as leucorrhea stringiness and pl test strips. On August 9, I went around the city looking for ovulation test strips, thinking that if I couldn't find them, I would order them online. I bought 10 that day, and later bought 15. I also bought more than 10 zy test strips, food and grass first.

My period ended on August 12th.

I started testing pl on August 15th, using the Leshi ovulation test strip, and it was negative, with one line without a doubt.

I didn’t test on August 16th, thinking it might be too early, so I decided to test the next day. Even if there was a possibility, it would be a weak positive.

I took an ovulation test on August 17th, and it was negative, but it was still an incredible line, confirming that I was pregnant.

At 9 am on August 18, I felt something coming out. I went to the bathroom and saw a transparent mass of something, which was very clean. I wiped it with toilet paper and nothing was left on my shorts. I thought there were still three days of heavy vaginal discharge. I didn't pay much attention to it at first, and wanted to wait until there was more vaginal discharge before testing. Then I went to read a book, but as I read, I took the test paper to test it. Oh, the Leshi test paper was strongly positive!!! That is, the test line quickly became deeper than the control line!!! I didn't believe it, so I used David's and Lixiu's ovulation test paper to test again. David's showed that the two lines were equally deep, and Lixiu's showed weak positive. I immediately called my husband, who was on a business trip, and I asked to go to him. He said it was too early and asked me to go the next morning. I refused sternly. In the afternoon, I took a train to the north. I tested it at around 10 pm. The Leshi test paper was already weakly positive, and the second line was very shallow. David's test paper only had one line. I didn't know that ovulation would be so fast at the time, and I thought the test paper was inaccurate, so I planned to wait a little longer. However, with the persistent mentality of "better to kill by mistake than to miss", I had sex at night. I have a posterior uterus, and I saw the girls saying that they should have sex in the posterior position while kneeling, so we adopted it for the first time. After that, I quickly turned over and stood upside down. During this process, a small amount of "worms" leaked out. After standing upside down for 20 minutes, I used a pillow to support my butt and did not move all night. The next day, I found that very little semen flowed out, but I used to flow a lot. Later, after being reminded by iced tea, I estimated that I would ovulate on the 18th.

On August 20, the PL test paper was negative, with only one line. I went out to play, and after coming back in the afternoon, I took a hot bath and had AA at around 5 o'clock.

On August 21, the PL test paper was negative, so I rested.

On August 22, the PL test was negative. I climbed a mountain, ran down the mountain, and fell. My hands and feet landed on the ground at the same time, so I didn't hurt anywhere. I had AA at around 5pm.

On August 23, the PL test paper was negative, so I rested.

On August 24, the pl test paper was negative (the seventh day from the ovulation day on the 18th). At about 10 o'clock in the morning, when I left a message to Bingbingcha in the Internet cafe, my lower left abdomen felt hot and throbbing, as if it was beating, and it hurt for about 30 seconds. I thought it was implantation, and I was going to have AA in the afternoon, but I was afraid that it would affect implantation, so I took a rest. From then on, I stopped AA.

In the early morning of August 25, I tested it with PL test paper and a faint red line appeared.

On August 28, a watermark appeared on the pregnancy test paper of a friend of mine one hour later, and a small thin red line could be seen in the sunlight.

On August 29, the quick negative result showed up, but I don’t think it’s accurate.

From August 30 to September 2, the time for the watermark to appear on the pregnancy test paper of my friends became shorter and shorter. Although the red line appeared after 5 minutes, it was faint but clear.

On September 3, a red line lighter than the control line appeared within 5 minutes.

Lessons learned:

1. Dive more, learn with an open mind, summarize other people's successful experiences, compare with yourself, and apply what you have learned. The most important thing is that I met good friends such as Bingbingcha, Piaopiao, and Mimi, and relaxed my mood. Especially Bingbingcha, when I was away from home, I didn't know whether I ovulated, and I was so anxious that I just wanted to find Bingbingcha to talk to. Their encouragement made me not alone on the road to pregnancy, so that I was full of fighting spirit, and had a lot of happiness and a lot of expectations.

2. Be persistent, whether it is buying test strips, learning diving, or taking tests, taking AA at the right time and taking VE and folic acid, you must be persistent and have the determination of "rather make a mistake than miss it".

3. Use test strips to test pl as early as possible. I also think that test strips are more objective. After ovulation, you should continue to test to avoid missing it. Don't be stingy with test strips. I used 25 test strips this month, and used 6 or 7 on the day of pl.

4. Verify the accuracy of the test paper by combining body temperature and leucorrhea stringiness.

5. Relax when you are playing AA. Don’t tell your boyfriend that today is the PL day. You can say: “I don’t know if it is the PL day. It may be or not.” “It is better to kill 3,000 by mistake than to miss one.” “Let’s try it. Actually, I have thought about it a little bit.” Your boyfriend will be very happy and relax. As long as he relaxes, everything will be hopeful.

6. You can use ordinary test strips 14 to 16 days after pregnancy to test whether you are pregnant, so don't worry.

7. Insist on taking VE. After I came here and learned that VE can prevent miscarriage and improve ovarian function, I started taking it on August 8th, along with folic acid, all day long. I think the short cycle and early ovulation this month may be related to taking VE.

Symptoms from ovulation to confirmed pregnancy:

This period of time is the most difficult time. I always want to know whether I am pregnant, and I always want to compare my symptoms with others.

1. On the seventh day from ovulation, my lower left abdomen twitched for 30 seconds. It didn't hurt or itch, but it felt strangely uncomfortable. I haven't had this experience in 30 years. It might be implantation.

2. After implantation, there is a lot of pp. In the early morning of the second day after implantation, the pl test paper detected a watermark.

3. My vagina felt painful before and after implantation, but it stopped hurting after implantation and it has lasted until now. My vagina seems to have grown a bit bigger and I can no longer wear my old underwear.

4. The left lower abdomen has been uncomfortable since implantation, and sometimes very bloated.

5. On the 22nd day of Yj and the 11th day after pl, the pulse beat faster, 107 times/minute, and the beat was "fast and smooth", "dongdongdong" skipped from "cun", "guan", and "chi" in turn. Traditional Chinese medicine in China detected it 6 to 8 days earlier than the test paper of Western medicine.

6. Unusually high body temperature. I kept measuring my body temperature at midnight for a few days after ovulation, and it was low, only around 36.4. Later, I followed Bingbingcha's advice and measured it regularly at 7 a.m., and it was always above 36.8. Now it's over 37. My previous high temperature was around 36.6, and rarely exceeded 36.8.