Change the lazy mood of sex to make sex full of passion

　　

　　全国3824位20到64岁男女进行状况进行了调查后，在已婚或同居的男女中，每个月连一次性生活都不到的人超过1/4；在最近的一年里，连一次性生活都没有的则占6.2%。

       如何改变这种性生活的慵懒情绪，让性充满激情呢？

　　第1招：温馨摇椅式

You can place a double-back chair in the room for couples to sit on. When you have free time, use the rocking chair as a reminder to talk about your sexual experience, or even talk about the sexual experience you heard or saw (such as video), touch each other's body, stimulate the sense of touch. At the same time, you can also be touched by the other party to arouse sexual desire.

This is not done simply to arouse sexual excitement, but as a way to increase physical sensitivity. By caressing, you can reduce the sense of restraint in your sexual intercourse, change the original old-fashioned method of sexual activity, and arouse natural sexual response.

　　第2招：见缝插针式

Don't make it a rule that you can only do it before you go to bed at night. Change your sex schedule. You can use the ten or twenty minutes before you get up, or go straight to the bed after get off work for a quick sex. Although this is different from leisurely sex, it is very stimulating and can give both parties great emotional satisfaction.

　　第3招：欲擒故纵式

　　一个星期不做爱可能很多人并不会在意，但两个星期是一个合适的时间，可以建立起足够的欲望。因此，可以自制一份做爱日程。比如在一周中挑选出某天来作为做爱的日子，在一周之内，规定不能互相爱抚，甚至亲吻，在两人中制造一种紧张情绪，在等待的日子里，可以让彼此对对方的需要的欲望更加强烈。但这只能偶尔为之，常常这样，可能连在一起的欲望都没有了，那就有些得不偿失了。

　　第4招：奢侈开房式

　　结婚后繁琐的家务、繁忙的工作占去了你们大部分的时间。你们有多长时间没有去逛街、看电影、共进晚餐了？下班后相约看一场电影，各自去电影院，在电影院的长队里来个浪漫的相会！或者在优雅的餐厅，听着舒缓的音乐，来一次浪漫的烛光晚餐。

If you really want to escape from your current environment but don't have the conditions to go to another place, then booking a room in a hotel may allow you to experience a pure world for two. Remember, it is best to choose a four-star hotel or above. Although it is luxurious, a good dating environment will allow you to regain the happy time when you were newlyweds!