Most men want to show their "manliness" and not "ejaculate" during sex. However, some men are always unable to do so and "surrender" not long after the "battle" begins, causing their wives to end the "battle" before the orgasm comes. Someone once summarized the ancient art of sex in one sentence, which is that men delay the orgasm and reach a new orgasm together with women. Therefore, men's insistence on not "ejaculating" is a common concern of both men and women in sex. There are several ways to help men fight a "protracted war" and promote harmony between husband and wife. _www.SexJK.com
1. Use condoms. Wearing a condom can reduce the stimulation of the glans penis, thus delaying ejaculation. If one condom doesn't work, you can wear two.
2. Go into battle lightly and don't blindly pursue "bravery" in the "battle". Because being too brave will reduce the control ability of the ejaculation center due to tension and anxiety. When there is a sense of urgency for ejaculation, adjust the speed of twitching. The man can pull out the penis or stop twitching to reduce sexual tension, and then resume twitching according to the situation. Repeating this action repeatedly can significantly prolong the duration of sexual intercourse.
3. Use labor-saving sexual positions. You can try to choose positions where the man uses less effort and his muscles are relaxed, such as side-lying, woman-on-top, sitting, etc., to prolong the duration of sexual intercourse. When the man is on top and the woman is on the bottom, the man is more active, his movements are larger, he is easily excited, and he ejaculates quickly. However, if the woman is on top or the side position is used, the woman is active, the man uses less effort, and his muscles are relaxed, which is more conducive to a "protracted war". The highly respected Indian "yap-yum" position also has a miraculous effect on men's ejaculation self-control.
The Hindi word "yap-yum" means father and mother or yang and yin. In this position, the man sits cross-legged and the woman straddles his legs, facing each other, with her arms and legs controlling him, and her hands and feet touching his back.
If the man feels tired, he can use a cushion under the woman's buttocks. The woman puts her mouth close to the man's right ear and exhales slowly and deeply, while the man puts his mouth close to the woman's left ear and inhales slowly and deeply. Alternate and imagine a circular halo penetrating the whole body: head, heart, genitals... In this relaxed and pleasant situation, the desire to ejaculate will be well controlled.
4. Pull the scrotum and testicles. Since the scrotum and testicles shrink and rise during sexual excitement, pulling the scrotum and testicles downward from the female side during sexual intercourse can reduce sexual tension and delay the onset of orgasm.
5. Pinch and squeeze the penis. When you feel the urgency of ejaculation, pull out the penis immediately. The woman should place her index and middle fingers above and below the glans of the penis, and put her thumb on the corresponding part. Pinch and squeeze relatively, which can reduce sexual excitement. Relax every three to four seconds, and repeat this process.