The secret weapon for smart women to win love

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Not flirtingwomanNo future! Don't make a fuss, this world belongs to the "bad" who can flirtwomanIn love, work and social life, ambiguity is productivity. The more you flirt, the more successful you are. This high-quality emotional intelligence is smart.womanThe new key to winning the world!

 

　　The world belongs to women who can flirt

　　Can you Flirt?

If flirting reminds you of sex, it only means that the discussion of sex in society has gone too far. The bourgeoisie who created the wonderful word Flirt in the mid-19th century actually only regarded flirting as socializing, a polite reflex action of "upper class beauty". This principle has been extended to today and is actually more useful. Flirting has little to do with sex. It does not even belong to the small circle of love. It is just a "social foreplay" for smart people, which condenses high-quality emotional intelligence keywords such as humor, affinity, taste, and artistic atmosphere.

There are also women who complain every day that "there are too many unfaithful men in the world" - most of them are also victims who don't know how to flirt. For them, whistling can turn into a hooligan incident; praising thighs may cause a fight. They regard men's flirting as love, and if not, it is just teasing.

The truth is, in modern flirting, no one is actually pursuing anyone - they all understand that it is just a collective game of multi-directional existence. In simple terms, flirting is neither for sex nor for love, it is an "aerobic" exercise to activate interpersonal relationships. "Flirting masters" can be confident and elegant, well-read, and eloquent... Among them, there is the goddess Duras who swept the European literary and art circles, and later there is Carrie Bradshaw in "Sex and the City".

So, don't cling to etiquette and be a silly woman without interest. Flirting is the "basic etiquette" of the new social life: it is natural for men to be attentive, and it is also common for women to tease moderately. In the future, if you hear diplomatic rhetoric such as "It sounds so sweet" or "I really want to eat you", don't be surprised - this may be the most appropriate dialogue at a cocktail party.

 

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　　The more you flirt, the more successful you are.

The more a woman flirts, the more successful she is, and the enjoyment of success can be large or small. If you chat and laugh with the waiter in a coffee shop, you may get a bigger piece of cake; and Madonna flirted openly with a group of men as early as the 1990s. Although she was notorious, she shook the world and made a lot of money.

There is a saying called "attention economy". In the information age, everything is in excess, and only human attention is a scarce resource. Whoever can attract more attention will win.

Women are natural diplomats. For example, one of the industries that belongs to "them" - "public relations department" is a business born in the "attention economy" environment. It cannot be said that all public relations experts are Flirt experts, but they are also operators who maximize the capital of beauty - using gender charm in the workplace to the greatest extent possible to make people feel happy, friendly, and willing to serve for it.

The flirting masters of the "attention economy" are far from limited to the public relations industry. With smiles in their eyes and ambiguous words and deeds, they attract the attention of men and women, and the more men gather in places, the more important role they can play. You see, Tang Wei, who is over 30 years old and made famous by "Lust, Caution", staged the "zipper gate" incident in front of the camera, which made Ang Lee and the public "take a hot bath" together and made their blood boil, but that was all. After 3 minutes of overwhelming efforts, the zipper was pulled up, and Tang Wei also made the headlines. - In the modern arena, ambiguity is productivity. #p#Subtitle#e#

 

　　Only beautiful women flirt?

Have you ever wondered why the "bad women" who are now like fairies and attract attention are all ordinary-looking? There is only one reason: it is not only the extremely beautiful who have the capital to play around in the world! Another explanation for this sentence is: there are no ugly women, only stupid women.

Maybe you don't have a proud bust, or a body that's not as hot as Jessica Alba; maybe you don't have an angelic face, or a perfect appearance like Li Jiaxin, so you don't expect to stand out from the crowd - this is a big mistake! The saying that women should have both talent and beauty is outdated. The wisdom, taste, and conversation led by the mind... are the fatal attraction.

The talented and fashionable female writer in Sex and the City is not beautiful. In the finale, Carrie's ordinary and even old face after removing her makeup surprised women all over the world, but at the same time, they were excited: because of a role with brains and a style and taste that lived up to expectations, a woman can be charming with ordinary appearance and make people completely forget her real age. When Maggie Cheung walked down the narrow stairs in In the Mood for Love wearing a cheongsam and swaying her waist, both men and women were fascinated. In fact, "she is not particularly beautiful, nor particularly sexy, but this woman is too tasteful."

Whether a woman is popular or not has little to do with her beauty. Flirting is not about wearing clothes that expose the body to the maximum extent and spraying expensive perfume on the streets. A woman who knows how to flirt is charming, but she can be plain-looking and old, but she is definitely full of wisdom. Therefore, instead of spending time and money on liposuction and botulinum toxin injections, it is better to master the real skills of this new high-IQ game.

 

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　　A little worse, a little worse

Take a look at the most popular women in the world recently, and you will know what kind of people are welcomed in today's world. Megan Fox is covered in tattoos and has a tendency to self-harm; she has a bad temper and speaks without restraint, and she always talks about wanting to murder her boyfriend; she always mentions the name of a new man in every interview, and is keen to have a private relationship with men she "likes" and men all over the world... No matter how much you hate her, hate her, and keep digging up her not-so-glorious past, it can't stop her from becoming extremely popular and rising rapidly; and Lindsay Lohan, who is as unreliable as Megan Fox, openly opposes the "good girls" all over the world and wants to set off a "mean girl" trend.

They are all likely to be included in the list of the most notorious women of this century. But notoriety is no real criticism of these "bad women". The fact that they are rebellious and wild and voluptuous has left the sweetheart Hollywood sexiness far behind. Endless nightlife, partners who come and go like a revolving lantern - they have never thought of packaging themselves as "good girls". #p#Subtitle#e#

 

　　Acting like a spoiled child is more powerful than a thousand troops

Meeting Lin Chi-ling is like meeting a real-life version of a Barbie doll. She walks like a cat and tilts her head slightly to the right when she talks. When the TV host Kevin Tsai asked the boys on the show if any of them liked Lin Chi-ling, the men were stunned for a moment and did not respond. Lin Chi-ling said in a sweet and coquettish voice, "If you don't tell me, I'm going to cry..." Everyone on and off the screen was dumbfounded!

Someone said: "A man needs thousands of troops to conquer the world, but a woman can melt thousands of troops with just a little coquettishness."

There are many beautiful women in the entertainment industry; there are also many highly educated artists; there are also many young and attractive rising stars in the industry. In the complex competition, Lin Chiling chose the simplest and most "embarrassing" method: smiling gently, speaking in a coquettish voice, with a sweet tone, and a pitiful shyness. In the entertainment industry where youth is the greatest asset, she has firmly secured the throne of "the most beautiful woman" with her qualifications of over 30 years old.

Lin Chi-ling's appearance has created a kind of "harmless sexiness". Her charming baby voice and blatant coquetry make people unable to ignore her presence. While being equally aggressive, she also makes people feel sweet and warm. In Hollywood, there are many beauties who win with their coquetry skills like Lin Chi-ling: the delicate "Legally Blonde" Reese Witherspoon became famous for her coquetry while holding a Chihuahua. In her daily life, her manners and conversations are always tortuous and memorable; and the petite doll Scarlett Johansson, with her cute smile and sweet appearance, inherited the mantle of Monroe, the "most coquettish person in history".

Spreading from the entertainment industry, the "new style of acting like a spoiled child" has also gained popularity in social settings. The term "dear" has become a social opening line, and "Come on, come on!" is Lin Chiling's catchphrase after work, and has now become a popular workplace greeting for both men and women. The public has also been re-brainwashed, believing that acting like a spoiled child can turn a bad situation into a good one.

Therefore, office buildings, offices, and business receptions are full of "Lin Chilings". They have high EQ, good temperament, and great affinity, and they are well-controlled - they only act coquettishly but not "pretend to be young", they only act coquettishly but not "act wild", and they openly use the weapons of little girls to shocking extents in the adult world. This is a high-level flirting. Even if they always appear as delicate little girls, who dares to underestimate the maturity and experience under the delicate appearance? Gentleness is a kind of power. The existence of Lin Chilings proves that women have their own ways, and little women can also be proud of the world.

 

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　　Show your affection and win the world

On January 20, 2009, the classic love song "At Last" lingered in the White House. Obama, the first black president of the United States who had just taken office, and his wife Michelle danced gently in each other's arms under the watchful eyes of everyone, putting on a show of affection after winning the voters.

In fact, during the entire heated election campaign, Michelle lent a helping hand to Obama and spared no effort to give the public a lesson on flirting between a wife and a husband. "When you see his wife looking at him affectionately, you know that he is not so bad after all." This theory comes from a famous social book, and it has been proven true after practice. Before her husband's speech, Michelle would pat Obama's cheek; after the speech, Michelle would naturally hold her husband's hand, interlocking their fingers; the couple would sometimes clench their fists and tap each other to celebrate; sometimes they would look into each other's eyes and show their intimacy without any hesitation... In the bold flirting, Michelle sent her husband to the pinnacle of power in the world. When he took office, they held hands tightly and took the oath together - it looked perfect, the political arena was filled with the sweetness of love, how romantic would this world be?

Michelle is smart. Unlike Hillary Clinton who likes to steal the limelight from her husband, she is not like Laura Bush who is a conservative housewife. Her "flirting and loving show" with her husband not only helped Obama win the trust of the United States, but also led to a new way of marriage for professional women! Michelle not only became a lawyer earlier than her husband, but also earned more than her husband. However, after entering the political and social circles, she was neither an "iron lady" nor a "vase wife", but a combination of sensibility and intellect, strength and femininity, independence and dependence. In Obama's campaign, Michelle was an absolute weight, but she neither stood in front of him nor hid behind him. She just held his hand tightly and stood beside him, boldly and affectionately telling the world how much she loved him.

Treating each other with respect is too old-fashioned, and the era of "loving you but not being able to express it" is over. Watching Victoria holding hands with David Beckham in magazines to show their love in bed, the marriage that seemed to be shaky and full of scandals has safely completed ten years with Victoria Beckham's calm and open love, and the two are worthy of being the most watched celebrity couple in the world. To commemorate the "ten years of marriage", David Beckham and his wife are preparing to form a husband-and-wife group and release their first music album Beauty and Geek. This is another public flirtation in front of the public, at least, the love is strong.

 

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Men don't love women who don't have the guts. In the fast and direct modern rhythm, reserve is no longer a pleasing philosophy of life, and no one is willing to spend ten times the time to knock on a deep heart. Shy and dull beauties will lose to the passionate "Cinderella" - there is no absolute advantage in this world, it all depends on whether you are brave enough.