Middle-aged couples have been through thick and thin together for decades, and their sexual life experience has gradually sublimated into sexual companionship and sexual emotional communication; in addition, as their children have become independent, middle-aged couples have more advantages in terms of time and space than young couples in terms of sexual life. Therefore, sexual life with sexual companionship and sexual emotional communication as its main content has become an important part of the lives of middle-aged couples.
Among them, impromptu sex is a series of waves of sexual and emotional exchange.
When a middle-aged couple sees their spouse bathing, changing clothes or putting on makeup, they may suddenly feel emotional and go up to the spouse to be intimate and touch each other. This is called impromptu sex. When couples are good at impromptu sex, they can often enjoy unexpected happiness; if they don't handle it well, it's like pouring a basin of cold water on each other.
Just imagine, when you are taking a shower, your wife quietly comes from behind and hugs you, would you say: "I am busy now!" If as a wife, when you are putting on makeup, your husband finds you so charming and can't help hugging you from behind, kissing and caressing you, would you spit at him: "Stop bothering me!"
You should warmly accept your spouse's request for impromptu sex. If your wife comes to you for intimacy while you are in the shower, you can turn around and make an impromptu response, and express your appreciation for her doing so. You can hug your wife or give her a serious kiss instead of perfunctory, and then turn around to take a shower. She will feel that you have given her sincere and interesting affirmation and encouragement of her passion. Both of you will feel more harmonious and loving. Of course, this impromptu sex does not necessarily mean that you must follow up with sex.