Find the "sexual" sensitive zone to boost sex

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     Women may complain that men don't love them or have changed their minds because of their poor performance in bed, but they are unwilling or think that they don't need to do anything for men, and will not take the initiative to arouse his desire. This is very harmful to men, especially those who have been together for a long time (the novelty has worn off), are older, and have reduced sexual ability.

     Experts point out that the sexual stimulation and sexual impulse generated by the peripheral sexual sensitive areas are the basis of sexual life, while the sexual stimulation and sexual impulse from the reproductive organs are the advanced forms of sexual life. Only when the peripheral sexual sensitive areas and the reproductive organs work together can perfection be achieved. Therefore, both men and women should work hard to discover each other's "sexual" sensitive areas and improve the quality of sex life.

     Men's Edition:

     Although they have been married for many years, Mr. Wang and his wife have never been satisfied with their sex life. Soon after their child went to college in another city, they decided to consult an expert about their sexual feelings.

     After meeting the expert, Mr. Wang seemed to have a lot of complaints: "In the first few years after marriage, my wife was busy with childbirth and child-rearing tasks. I didn't force her too much, and I just dealt with it. There was no so-called feeling at all. The child grew up, and I was in my 40s. My sexual ability has declined. It seems that pursuing sex is the last train. But we don't understand each other very well, and we don't know how to help each other."

     Sex skills are nothing more than stimulating the "sexual" sensitive area

     Sexual skills and the strength of sexual feelings depend largely on the stimulation of sexual sensitive areas. During sex, women actively stimulating men's sexual sensitive areas helps men's sexual response.

     Of course, the penis of a man is the most direct and strongest sexually sensitive area. The coronal sulcus of the penis is relatively sensitive, and the most sensitive area is concentrated on the frenulum of the glans penis, which is a cord-like structure located below the glans penis and connecting the glans penis and the foreskin. Most men find it difficult to resist direct stimulation of it, and this area is often the first choice for doctors to stimulate when treating anejaculation.

     The body of the penis is home to many sexual sensors, which are very sensitive to friction and squeezing. The pleasure of friction comes from rubbing up and down, while the pleasure of squeezing comes from the penis being held and constantly squeezed, compressed and relieved, which can bring a man a strong sense of excitement. The scrotal skin and testicles are also a man's "sexual" sensitive area. Gently lifting the scrotum and bringing the testicles closer to the penis can make a man more excited. Try to touch the perineum between the scrotum and the anus. When you gently touch this "sensitive area", most men are very sensitive and feel very comfortable.

     The "sexual" sensual zone can be cultivated

     On a certain physiological basis, sexual sensitive areas are formed after birth and are the final result of many experiences. The human body has many potentials, and frequently caressing a part will enhance its sensitivity. For example, if a man's chest and ears are often caressed during sex, their sensitivity to sexual stimulation may go from weak to strong, and finally become new sexual sensitive areas. Sexual sensitive areas will gradually expand from the center to the periphery, slowly spreading throughout the body, and they will become more and more nostalgic for delicate caresses.

     The erogenous zone changes with age 

     Men seem to be naturally full of desire for the opposite sex, and it seems that any physical contact can make him ready to go, but the actual situation is not so. Men's sexual sensitive areas will be significantly different as they age and their physical fitness declines. The physical strength and sexual desire of the weak and middle-aged men will gradually decline with age, and the reflexes of the nervous system and the sensitivity of the skin to stimulation will also decline to varying degrees, and the threshold of sensory stimulation required to achieve sexual excitement will also increase successively. At this time, if you get straight to the point and directly stimulate the genital area, sexual excitement will come quickly, but it will not be very strong and it will be difficult to last. Therefore, as they get older, men will become more and more nostalgic for the delicate caress from women. When women try their best to satisfy men, the happiness generated by men will naturally infect women in turn.

     Expert advice:

     1. Take the initiative to explore your husband’s sexual sensitive areas

     Although men's "sexual" sensitive areas are mostly concentrated on their sexual organs, in fact, every part from head to toe should be considered as a sexual sensitive area. Men's ears, lips, cheeks, tongue, neck, etc. may all become sexual sensitive areas, but for a certain man, the sexual sensitive areas are somewhat different after all, and the intensity of the feeling will also vary from person to person. This requires continuous exploration and experience to understand men's "sensitive" areas.

     For example, some men have very sensitive nipples, and sucking or licking them can have a very strong effect, and even gently stroking and pulling them with your hands can have a very good emotional effect; and men generally appreciate women gently stroking their chests, which can make men feel ecstatic. Men's mouths are also a major arousal area.

     It is fun and exciting to actively explore your partner's particularly sensitive parts. There are ten "sexual" excitement points on men's bodies that are more frequently expressed: ears, lips, armpits, hands, nipples, navels, penis and surrounding areas, buttocks, inner thigh roots, and feet. Therefore, men should also have their G-spots, and as a wife, you should explore and explore them more.

     2. The technique should be gentle

     The method of stimulating sensitive areas should be done in accordance with the natural trend and not too strong, so as not to make men feel rejected or fearful. It should be done from light to gradual, allowing men to slowly adapt. Do not use brute force at the beginning, and rough methods should be prohibited. The stimulation time should not be too long. Lubricants can be used to aid sexual performance when necessary to avoid damage to the skin of the genitals. Otherwise, men will feel pain and suffering instead of pleasure.

     Women's Edition:

     I have been with him for three years, from boyfriend to husband, plain and steady. But every time we have sex, he goes straight to the point without a second of foreplay. Although I have always cooperated, to be honest, I have never had the urge to do it. I am surprised that kissing and caressing can be omitted in sex. This kind of sex life makes me feel boring. Is it going to be like this in the future?

     Confused Li

     Compared with men, women prefer stimulation from their surrounding sexual sensitive areas. Every woman desires full, delicate and lasting caressing. Especially the elderly and the weak prefer emotional life. Stimulation such as touching, hugging and kissing is generally popular among women.

     Reproductive organs play a major role

     The best part of the female erogenous zone is of course the external genitalia. The labia majora and minora, mons pubis, and vestibular glands are all very sensitive to sexual stimulation and can feel local and psychological sexual stimulation and produce pleasure.
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     The clitoris is a small nodular spongy tissue, which consists of the glans and body of the clitoris. It has sexual erections similar to the penis of men. It is very sensitive to touch and can be aroused by a gentle touch. Touching and kneading with fingers is more effective. It is the most sensitive sexual organ of women. It is extremely important in sexual response, especially in sexual arousal and in producing sexual pleasure.

     The vagina is an essential organ for sexual activity. Its entrance (near the hymen) and the outer 1/3 are home to a rich and very sensitive sensory nerve endings. The cervix is connected to the end of the vagina and can also produce a strong reaction when sexually stimulated.

     The "G" spot is a recognized "sexual" sensual area

     Many people may have heard that there is a "G" spot in women's bodies. It is located in an area 4 to 5 cm away from the vaginal opening on the front wall of the vagina and is similar in size to a small coin. It is a female sexual sensitive area that is highly sensitive to sexual stimulation and has a clear reflex relationship with sexual excitement. It can promote sexual behavior and enhance the feeling of sexual excitement and orgasm. It is known as the "magic button". Stimulating the G spot can make women have strong sexual excitement, sexual pleasure and orgasm. At this time, the G spot can swell to form an oval bulge and can eject several milliliters of emulsion, which is very similar to the ejaculation phenomenon of men.

     Age differences in sexual sensibility

     As they age, middle-aged and elderly women will have more demands for sex and hope to get more satisfaction from it. At the same time, women's sexual sensitive areas will also undergo significant changes. At this time, the preparation time for sex will be significantly shortened, and the senses will be involuntarily concentrated on the genitals and a few other parts of the body, showing a characteristic of concentration from the periphery to the center.

     Judging from the characteristics of women's sexual response and the differences in the performance of the "G" spot, the so-called sexual skills depend to a large extent on the relationship between the couple and the stimulation methods of the sexual sensitive areas. No matter how the sexual sensitive areas change, strengthening emotional cultivation and stimulating the sexual sensitive areas more will bring sexual joy to the wife.

     Expert advice:

     1. Women’s erogenous zones are not limited to their reproductive organs

Women's erogenous zones are wider than men's. In addition to the vulva, vagina, "G-spot" and cervix, there are many erogenous zones on the body. The two breasts are the most erogenous parts of women and are the second most sensitive erogenous zones after the clitoris. Caressing and stimulating the breasts and nipples can not only effectively stimulate sexual desire, but also facilitate two-way communication between couples and form a good psychological feeling.

     In addition, most of the itchy and sensitive skin areas on the body can stimulate sexual desire, including the inner thighs, anus, eyelids, chest, lower abdomen, lumbar sacral region, buttocks, armpits, neck, nose, scalp, hands, legs, etc. As long as the stimulation is done properly, it can cause sufficient excitement. The lips, tongue and oral cavity contain rich nerves and blood vessels, which are also very sensitive parts of women. According to conservative estimates, young women have no less than 40 sexual sensitive areas.

     2. Discovering women’s “sexual” zones is a joint endeavor for both parties

     There are great individual differences in women's sexual sensitive areas and their sensitivity, some are very obvious, while others are more subtle. The contradictions and dissatisfactions in the early stages of marriage are mostly related to the differences in the understanding of sex and the sensitivity of sexual sensitive areas between couples. Some men do not know how to stimulate sexual sensitive areas during caressing, or often fail to do so, which is very disappointing to the woman.

     The husband should be more attentive and considerate of the woman, take the initiative to find out the specific location of her sexual sensitive areas and then explore them; and the woman may wish to use her hands to guide the man during the caressing stage, guiding him to touch her most sensitive parts, and guide him to master the appropriate stimulation method, direction and strength, so that both parties can cooperate more tacitly and have a more harmonious sex life.

     The most sensitive area of men is concentrated on the frenulum of the glans penis, which is a cord-like structure located under the glans penis and connecting the glans penis to the foreskin. Most men find it difficult to resist direct stimulation of it.

     Women's sexual sensitive areas are almost all over the body. Full, delicate and long-lasting caressing, touching, hugging, kissing and other stimulation are generally welcomed by women.