What motivates men to date?

     Don't think that dating a man is as simple as having a meal and taking a walk. You should know that men are very purposeful and there must be some motive behind every detail of dating you. You may get a marriage proposal from him or become his one-night stand. If you can't see clearly at the beginning of the date, you may not even have time to say "no" when everything goes smoothly until you go to bed. If you don't want to be fooled by a man, it's best to detect his true motives from every detail of the date.

All dates start with an appointment, so let's assume he starts your first date by calling you...
Secrets: 1: This is a sincere start, indicating that he has planned to date you. At least, it also shows that he has considerable social etiquette. 2: This man may just be lonely for a while. If you happen to be lonely and don't mind the result of dry wood meeting a raging fire, then go to the date. 3: In this case, it depends on the character of the man: If the man is honest and dull, it means that he is not sure about dating alone, so he hopes that both of you will have airbags to cushion; if he is cheerful and good at socializing, then this date is most likely just a small social gathering arranged by him, or he hopes to introduce a partner to his friends. 4: Don't even think about it, he just uses you as a stepping stone to meet your sisters. Whether you act as a matchmaker depends on your generosity. 5: Choosing a date at a free place or a place where you can't stay for a long time means that this man is not optimistic about how much development you can have with you, just trying his luck, and if he feels good, he will consider arranging other projects, and if he doesn't feel good, he will have a cup of coffee and leave immediately. 6: The date is chosen in such a traditional dating place, which means that he values this date very much and hopes to stay with you for a while and get to know each other better. : The first date is in such a place with bright lights and wine, just treating you as a playmate, and it's almost enough for everyone to get high together. 8: These are places that get straight to the point. If he asks you to go to these places, he is either very frivolous or he thinks you are a bold woman. 9: A man who is impatient and stingy thinks that all women should be fucked by him as long as they have a meal with him. 10: It is clear that he is not attracted to you and will not have any "improper thoughts" about you in the future. It is best not to contact each other to avoid being bored. 11: He still has a glimmer of hope for you, has a little feeling but is not very sure, or just greets you out of politeness. In short, there is not much potential for development. 12: This is what a very polite man who has no feelings for you would do. 13: It is still polite, and he will wait until the end to reveal his purpose, which is much better than yi ye qing. So it's up to you to choose whether to have sex or not: if you do, there's a 30% chance that you'll continue dating, a 50% chance that you'll become friends and sex partners, and a 20% chance that you'll both pretend nothing happened the next day. 14: Ha, congratulations, this man did the right thing from the beginning to the end of the date. Not only did he 100% show respect for you, he also 100% showed his affection for you, this is very likely the beginning of a great love, you decide whether to accept it!