Gentle insertion can also help women reach orgasm quickly

　　

      I once received a letter from a reader asking how to make a woman orgasm, and wanted Yanhui to introduce him to the simplest and most effective method. Haha! There are so many different sexual activities in life, but the simplest and most effective method varies from person to person. Why not try to assign some "homework" to yourself and your significant other, requiring you to complete some sensory exercises at the same time, such as sexual play or special sexual intercourse positions, etc. While enjoying it, the simplest and most effective method can also be revealed in it.

In other letters, it is not hard to see that no one dares to admit that he or his partner has sexual dysfunction. This almost ridiculous perfection has both personal and cultural reasons. From a personal perspective, we don't want friends to know our shortcomings. From a social and cultural perspective, the mass media only publicizes the smooth side of sex and ignores the failure side.

This kind of anxiety is usually unconscious and may be rooted in childhood experiences. Childhood education may make them afraid of sex, or some sudden and drastic events may associate sex with fear, but this obstacle is not impossible to eliminate. As you grow up, they may disappear naturally and be replaced by positive behaviors. If you understand the cause of the obstacle and have the desire to change, then the problem is half solved. Please try to remove negative thinking and replace it with positive thinking; let your partner teach you new ways of behaving in bed; or go through counseling to overcome your fear. No matter where the fear comes from, we should work hard to overcome it and learn to enjoy the pleasure of sex.

Here is a brief introduction on how to make your woman reach orgasm frequently without having to bother with new techniques. If you want to enjoy a higher quality sex life, you can only rely on you and your significant other to study and explore together.

The first step. Foreplay is very important. You can kiss a woman's whole body, but you must master the sexual sensitive areas. Most women's sensitive areas are on the clitoris. You can start by stroking the woman's entire vulva with your hands. Remember to stroke gently and not for too long. See how the woman performs. If the woman shows strong performance, you continue to stroke. If the woman does not show strong performance, you can stop stroking and continue to the next step, which is also the most critical step, which is to lick the clitoris with your tongue. Be sure to lubricate the clitoris with saliva, otherwise it will cause pain if it is dry. Because the clitoris is very sensitive, don't lick it too hard, just lick it lightly, and then lick the entire vulva. At this time, the vagina will secrete a lot of love fluid. You don't have to worry about it being dirty. As long as the woman does not have serious gynecological diseases, you can accept it. At this time, the woman's performance is already crazy. She already needs you to enter her body very much, but don't be impatient. Please continue to lick for one or two minutes and control it yourself.

The second step is to ride on her in a prone position, hold the penis in your hand and gently stroke the outside of the vulva a few times to let the lubricant stick to the penis, then you can slowly insert it, don't be in a hurry. After inserting it to the bottom, hold her and whisper some sweet words in her ear, then ask her if she wants a few thrusts, if she says yes, you can take action, then your chance to perform has come, please remember not to let yourself get too excited, otherwise there will be no follow-up, you must control yourself.

The third step is to use her own hands to lift her thighs to both sides and spread them apart. You do this in a kneeling position. I tell you that posture is very important, otherwise the woman cannot enjoy the orgasm. Also, don't insert it too deep, just insert it shallowly, one by one, to form a pattern. Don't insert it violently, it's boring and women won't like it.

The fourth step is also the most critical. After the above shallow insertion, the woman will definitely not be satisfied. You can touch the clitoris with your hand, while inserting and touching. Remember to lubricate your fingers with saliva to touch the clitoris. There are two techniques here, and the methods are different for each woman:

The first is to gently insert it, and touch the clitoris during the process. You must touch it, insert it very slowly, and after inserting it to the bottom, hold it, and then touch the clitoris again, and then gently and slowly withdraw it and repeat this process. At this time, the woman has reached the best state, and you can continue to pump it. The intensity is up to you. The time control is longer. This is also the most difficult time to control, because the woman has reached orgasm and you will feel the vagina contract. If you feel the vagina contract, you keep inserting it, and you must insert it deep and for a long time until ejaculation. Then the woman will never forget you in this life. If you can't control it, stop and continue, and repeat it several times. This is the first way.

Secondly, you should speed up the process, touch while inserting, and don't insert deeply before the woman reaches orgasm. Only when the woman reaches orgasm can you insert deeply and forcefully, because if you insert too deeply before the woman reaches orgasm, it will hurt, and if you insert too deeply, you will lose control of ejaculation. The key points are as follows:

1) Spread the woman's thighs a little wider, and arch her upper body upwards. When she reaches climax, she can hook her hands around your neck and you can penetrate her deeply and forcefully.

2) When touching the clitoris, your fingers must be lubricated, and then touch gently in coordination with the speed of rubbing.

3) The penis should stay in the vagina for a sufficient amount of time, which is estimated to be 40 minutes from start to finish. Can you hold on? Building confidence in sexual life for women with mild sexual indifference If female friends lack confidence in themselves, I believe the following methods will be helpful to you.

·Learn to love your body, especially the unique features—hair, hands, eyes, breasts, legs, etc.

· View your sexuality as normal: You are born with sexuality, and it is the most natural thing.

· Be open and honest with your partner: Enhance your relationship by being open with him about your obstacles, especially the parts of yourself that are difficult for you to accept.

· Learn "sexual selfishness": Traditionally, women always put other people's happiness first. You should try to focus on your own feelings when having sex.

Express your feelings: Give yourself permission to move, talk, and even moan during sex.

Believe in effectiveness: Choose a birth control method that you can fully trust and feel comfortable with.

· Communicate fully: Develop mutually acceptable communication styles and terms between you and your partner.

·Discover your own preferences: Discover your favorite way of having sex through sexual fantasies, masturbation and experimentation. Reject the ways you don’t like and accept the ways you like.