19 sex experts' tips for orgasms in bed

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      19 experts' advice on orgasm in bed

      Sex can be better through learning. Why should you stick to the rules and settle for second best? Are you ready to embrace unprecedented pleasure?

      Below are 19 sex masters’ suggestions for orgasms in bed. Through their experiences and insights, you can also easily reach the peak of sex.

      If your man still can't give you pleasure, and you hope he can do so, you might as well find a small break after sex to talk to him and let him know what you want. For example, you can tell him directly: "It feels great just now, but I want to feel you close to my private parts. I haven't seen you do this before."

      In addition, many women always refuse men to give them oral sex because they feel inferior to their private parts. These women lack confidence. They think their private parts are ugly and have an embarrassing smell. Therefore, unless it is absolutely necessary, they try not to let men put their faces in front of their private parts for pleasure. If you want to relieve this anxiety, you might as well take a refreshing bath before going to bed. After your whole body is comfortable, relax and welcome the pleasure of oral sex. ~ Bonnie Liberg - author of "The New Male Sex"

      You must believe this fact. Most men think that women's vaginal secretions are like aphrodisiacs, which make them extremely excited. So, please put down your strict guard and stop rejecting him. Your vagina smells very good. Don't be stingy and let your man taste the deliciousness of your lower body. Feel the stimulation of his tongue sliding back and forth, and you will be closer to each other. ~ Sue Johnson, host of the Sunday Sex Talk Show

      If you feel that you haven't hit the itch yet, you can use your hands to spread your labia so that your man can get closer to your vulva and feel more pleasure. If you still have to ask your man to spread your labia, it will not only distract him, but also make him exhausted quickly. Therefore, it is best to spread your labia yourself so that your man can better please you. ~Peggy Liu - Founder of the Beverly Hills Sexuality Study Course

     Do you know how versatile your hands are? As long as you know how to use them flexibly, you will find that the pleasure your hands can bring you is no less than that of other parts of the body. When you use your hands to stimulate a man, it is recommended that you use a technique called "Ode to Brian", circle your fingers into a U shape, press your thumb on the base of his penis sheath, with your palm facing inward and the tiger's mouth facing yourself.

      Then, start to slowly rub his penis upwards. When your palm touches his glans, try to rub his glans with the flesh of your palm. After a while, switch to the other side and start rubbing upwards again. Follow the steps below and switch hands from time to time.

      There is also a technique called "Basket Weave". Apply some water-soluble lubricant on your hands, sit in front of him, overlap your fingers, and then circle his penis completely, with your thumbs facing you, and start rubbing it up and down. When you rub the penis up and down, remember to change the angle from time to time, and add some small shaking movements. You may wish to pay attention to his expression at any time to correct your movements. You will see that he has never felt more satisfied. ~Peggy Liu - Founder of the Beverly Hills Sexuality Research Course

      While you are playing with his penis, let him touch your private parts with his hands. This is really an exciting attempt. Mutual handjobs, exploring each other's private parts, exchanging stimulating pleasures, this kind of excitement can be controlled freely, and it can make subsequent physical contact more enthusiastic and exciting. ~Crick Richmond - Author of "Mouth-watering Sex Secrets"

      Many men are good-looking but useless. They only know how to vent their momentary impulses, but don't know how to please women. As his woman, you have the obligation to tell him what you want? What should he do?

      Of course, you don't have to be a strict teacher, correcting him in a rigid way. Every time you make love, it is a chance to train him. You can tell him what you need through the gestures of caressing, the speed of your body, and the force of entry. If he still doesn't understand, you can give timely verbal assistance, "Honey, this is great!", "It's just a little closer to perfection!", "Be gentle and I will feel more comfortable!" Remember to whisper and coquettishly express your feelings. ~ Paul Jonetti - author of "The Complete Guide to Sexual Excitement"

      This is a seemingly insignificant but surprisingly effective little trick that you may not even know about. Playing with pubic hair can also bring unexpected excitement, which is not possible for women who shave their pubic hair completely. Tell your lover about this little trick and let him do this service for you when you make love. ~Crick Richmond, author of "Mouth-watering Sex Secrets"

      If you want to have a desired orgasm, you must tell your man more clearly what to do. Your encouragement and praise are a kind of guidance. Or you can just grab his hand and move it on your body, instructing him to find your sensitive parts, the speed that makes you excited, and the sequence you are used to. There is nothing wrong with doing this. Consider such guidance as a kind of foreplay, and you can both get endless fun from it. ~Boni Liberger, author of "The New Male Sexuality"

The following secret can help you reach a higher level of orgasm and make you last longer before orgasm. To achieve this goal, you must have a good understanding between the two of you and be able to pay attention to each other's progress and feelings at any time. Before one of you reaches orgasm, stop vaginal penetration or masturbation, exchange sexual positions, or spend a few minutes massaging each other's body to ease the high sexual desire first. When the sexual desire has not completely subsided, enter the battlefield again, and repeat this step to approach orgasm. When you finally reach a real orgasm. That kind of explosive power will make you unforgettable. ~ Deborah Peterson-"Good Girl's Sex Guide"

Take a deep breath during sex. This small action can make your orgasm extra intense. Usually, our breathing becomes particularly disordered when we are nervous, especially when we are having sex or pleasing each other. We may panic for fear of not performing well and forget to adjust our breathing speed. Now is a good time for you to practice deep breathing. Concentrate and lower your breathing to the pelvic position. Then, slowly apply it to vaginal intercourse. Take a deep breath during sex. This will make you feel relaxed and reach the peak of your orgasm.

Be creative and use the characteristics and corners of various furniture in your home to try various sexual positions. For example, make love by a window where you can see outside but cannot see in from outside, under a piano, on a dining table, on a sofa in the living room, or on the edge of a hidden balcony. You can boldly adopt various positions to increase pleasure. Over time, the whole family will have the memory of your orgasm, and everywhere you see is an erogenous zone. ~ James Peterson, author of "365 Secrets of Improvement"

Many people have a big misunderstanding about sexual sadomasochism games, mistakenly thinking that they have to endure great pain to have fun from it. In fact, many fun and interesting role-playing games can not only stimulate sensory enjoyment, but also increase sexual interest. If you have never tried it, you might as well start with a game called "Queen's Day"; many men are eager to let women dominate them in sex and let them enjoy the passive pleasure in bed, so you can directly ask him to be your slave. For example, you are going to take a bubble bath, help you do a full body massage, do everything you can to manipulate him, and let him try every way to please you.
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Being conquered in bed is a sexual fantasy scene that many people dream of. Even so, you don't have to buy handcuffs and anklets yourself. I suggest you use silk scarves or stockings instead, tie up his ankles and wrists, cover his eyes with a handkerchief, yell at him not to move, take a rose, a feather, or a silk scarf, gently slide it over his body, stimulate his touch, or slide an icicle over his body, lick the chocolate sauce or cream on his chest, and do your best to play with him. ~ Gloria Blamey - Author of "The World of Sexual Control and Submission"

Even a soft toothbrush can be a very useful sex toy. Let your man use the bristles to gently brush your whole body. Apply special pressure to your sensitive parts, such as breasts, vagina, or places that are familiar to you. You can exchange such actions and take turns using this small prop to bring each other orgasm and develop each other's erogenous zones.

This kind of sex toys is readily available. You can hang a pearl necklace around your neck and let the round and smooth touch of the pearls flow on his body, or you can circle his penis and slide it up and down, which feels more intimate. Open the refrigerator and you will find many tools that can be used. Cucumbers, grapes, chocolate powder, and honey sauce will bring different pleasures and fun.