I was attacked by my best friend's wedding ring

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Zhang Momo is a female netizen I met online. At that time, she was very active on the BBS, and her analysis of things was sharp and profound. I am also a literature lover, and I admired her very much after reading her posts, and we gradually got to know each other.

 

When I met Zhang Momo, my job had just stabilized. I was not young anymore but still single. I was eager to find a boyfriend, but the company I worked for was a very small one. My job was not open to the public and my family was from another place, so my social circle was very narrow. This was also one of the reasons why I went online. However, there were not many serious men on the Internet, which made me very disappointed. After Zhang Momo learned about my situation, she recommended me to a matchmaking agency. Zhang Momo told me that she had met sixty or seventy men, some of whom were men she met online, and some were introduced to her by the matchmaking agency. Before that, I had seen many articles in the media exposing the shady dealings of matchmaking agencies, but Zhang Momo said that the matchmaking agency she joined was not bad. I was very naive at that time and easily believed her words, so I joined the matchmaking agency.

After being a member for nearly a year, I still have nothing to show for it. The people I want to meet, the matchmakers either say they are already dating or they change their phone numbers and can’t be contacted. Anyway, I just can’t meet them. And the people they let me meet are either not sincere or not suitable for me at all. I am really tired of the matchmakers’ faces and their lies.

I didn't find a suitable boyfriend, so I had to go to a matchmaking agency. First, I was too lonely, and second, the number of people my colleagues and friends could introduce to me was limited. I met Zhang Momo many times, and she was always very enthusiastic towards me. But I didn't like her too much. I thought she was not very good since she could meet 60 or 70 men so casually. But for a lonely person, a friendship that was just right was better than no friendship at all. That's what I thought at the time.

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She told me happily that she had found a boyfriend with very good conditions. That weekend evening, Zhang Momo called me from the matchmaking agency and said that she and her boyfriend Ji Hong were both at the matchmaking agency and asked me to come over and take a look.

I was curious and went over. Zhang Momo looked very happy and a little proud. She said that Ji Hong was very satisfied with her the first time he met her. My first impression of Ji Hong was that he was an honest man.

To be honest, seeing other people's relationships finally find a home, I felt very depressed that day. As it was getting dark, I wanted to leave. Zhang Momo said, "Don't go. Wait until Sister Wang (the matchmaker at the matchmaking agency) gets off work. I'll treat you to a meal." Along the way, Zhang Momo held Ji Hong's arm and was as affectionate as two lovers in love. Sister Wang and I walked behind. Sister Wang said, "At that time, Ji Hong came to me and said that he wanted to find someone who lived in Taiyuan and was smart. I thought, Zhang Momo is just right. After we were introduced, we got together." Sister Wang said this because she was afraid that I would blame her for not introducing Ji Hong to me first. I had more hope for her in my heart, thinking that maybe as our friendship deepened, she would no longer use me and would give me a good home. #p#Subtitle#e#

In front of me, Zhang Momo belittled Ji Hong's conditions, for example, she said that Ji Hong's house loan had to be repaid for 15 years, that Ji Hong had no car, and that one of her cosmetics was equivalent to Ji Hong's unemployed sister's monthly living expenses; on the other hand, she said in front of Ji Hong that Ji Hong was "quite smart" and praised Ji Hong for being considerate to her. She is the kind of woman who knows how to satisfy a man's self-esteem and give him face.

When Ji Hong was away on business, Zhang Momo often called him in front of me and said coquettishly, "Honey, I'm with Liang Yan now." It seemed that she was always with me when Ji Hong was away on business, and Ji Hong might think that she was a good woman who went home after get off work. In fact, it was not the case at all.

Later, Ji Hong's unit wanted to send him to work abroad for half a year. Ji Hong asked Zhang Momo if she could wait for him. Zhang Momo said, "Of course not. Who knows what will happen to you in half a year? What changes will you have in the future?" Ji Hong was so excited that he proposed to her immediately and gave her his bankbook.

I had no other choice but to tell Ji Hong about her story. Ji Hong was also shocked. We talked for a long time that night, and I learned that Zhang Momo had also tried to disparage me in front of him before. Ji Hong and I had no feelings for each other, so why did Zhang Momo want to slander me? Why did she deliberately want to make me unhappy? I found out more and more that this woman was insidious and terrible, and I regretted having her as my friend.

Her retribution finally came: Xin did not agree to her, and Ji Hong resolutely left her after knowing her misdeeds.

I broke up with Zhang Momo and stopped going to matchmaking agencies. But not long after, I discovered that I had encountered problems with online dating. My email was secretly accessed; my profile on the dating website was changed beyond recognition, and "not interested in one-night stands" was changed as a prank to "interested in one-night stands"; because the registration password on the dating website is my birthday, I naturally suspected that Zhang Momo was behind it. I tried to change my password, but it didn't work; I changed my email address, but it didn't work; I registered again, but it still didn't work. There were also men on the Internet who blatantly seduced me and said they wanted one-night stands. I asked everywhere why my password was cracked. Finally, an Internet user told me: There are some small hacking programs that can easily crack passwords. #p#Subtitle#e#

I felt terrified and called a lawyer to ask if I could resolve the issue through legal channels. The lawyer said that she monitored your computer and it would be difficult for you to prove how much actual loss she caused you. Besides, you couldn't provide strong evidence to prove that she did this. And even if she was found out, at most she would be criticized and educated, and there would be no more severe punishment.

To save myself the trouble, I no longer use the computer.

Now, I am 30 years old. A 30-year-old woman has been introduced to divorced men. I have never hurt anyone, but I was hurt to this end. Sometimes I think, what is the use of being kind? It only makes you easy to be deceived and makes you weak when you are bullied.