我一直有这观点,女人的高潮要靠自己争取。我们尝试过多种体位,我喜欢在他下面抱着他的腰,用腰腹的力使自己动起来,力度和频率完全由自己控制,感觉特棒。[中国性健康网]
小魏,女,27岁
我虽然交往过几位BF,可能没有遇到真正的“高手”吧,一直都平淡无趣,为了迎合他们,没高潮也得装,等到兴致来了他却累了……和现在的枕边人一起后,他教会我如何用情趣把变得美妙,把我引领到一个从前未曾尝试过的奇妙境界,原来充满情调的爱欲可以如此酣畅淋漓!

性别对调,女上男下
涂上他惯用的KENZO冰之诱惑,让自己散发自信的中性味道,再让他穿上带有我体香的弹性丝袜,来个女上男下角色大混乱。我也可以像男人一样:手轻轻抚过他腿部的每寸皮肤直达敏感部位,然后是火热的嘴唇,身体主动引领律动和高潮……
性感道具,创意无限
担心身材只会影响投入,是女人中了自己的圈套。明白这个理,我彻底抛开所谓的矜持,变着花样给自己买各种情趣内衣,蕾丝的、含香的应有尽有,挑逗指数让他目瞪口呆、鼻血直流。
In addition, if people only use the same few moves every time, they will naturally become boring after a long time. This year, we studied the famous "sex scripture" - the Indian Kama Sutra, and found that many of the movements and postures in the book are very beautiful and coordinated, and can also give women greater satisfaction. Every time we learn a new posture, we are very excited.
Prepare your body for orgasm
The most effective method is to exercise the orgasmic muscle. This term sounds as illusory as the G-spot, but it does exist. The method of training is very simple. Consciously contract the vagina about 100 times a day, and hold it for 10 seconds each time. After a period of training, you can change to fast contraction and fast release to train the orgasmic muscle to be able to contract and release freely. Every time you are intimate, the strong orgasmic muscle feels his "thing" particularly strongly and rapidly. With the flexible contraction and release, the pleasure of the orgasm is also particularly hearty.
小雨,女,28岁
Speaking of which, although I am not an expert, I have finally reached the stage of self-enjoyment.
Self-delusion hypnosis
如果今晚我计划好和伴侣的一场缠绵,开始前我会先点上有催情作用的迷迭香薰;沐浴后全裸站在镜子前,望着镜中曼妙的胴体,慢慢往身上涂抹迷迭香精油;然后开始幻想他的手温柔而热炙地覆盖我的肌肤,从耳垂、颈部、胸部一直往下游移到小腹和两腿间;像一团火从头燃烧至脚趾,直到感觉自己双颊绯红全身湿润,脑子开始发晕发麻,证明性幻想已经在脑中开始了前戏运动,等于注入高潮的润滑剂。
Give yourself some visual stimulation
女人也需要视觉刺激。做爱时你都闭着眼睛?那就太浪费了,我喜欢对着镜子做爱,激情时分看着镜中两具贴合火热的曲线,自己和他狂野迷离的神情,还有什么比这个更疯狂更大胆的兴奋剂吗?
自拍激情小电影
其实人都有窥探和被窥探的欲望。情绪来了,架一部DV,我们上演自己的“本能”,一开始我还有拘谨,但内心那种被窥视和表演的欲望像动力强劲的马达推动着我,放开束缚完全投入,高潮原来就是这么简单。
其实,在性爱生活中得到高潮是没有一定之规的,只要夫妻双方共同认可和喜欢,不管选择什么时间,什么地点都可以制造出你们最想要的那一刻!