1.求助高科技武器
Cell phones and emails may reduce opportunities for face-to-face communication, but they can have the opposite effect on enhancing libido. Regularly sending a passionate text message to your partner can keep your relationship in sync. However, it's important to note that text messages only work when they're kept secret. Therefore, couples might consider creating their own private "code" to express their feelings.
2.寻找新的敏感区
The human body has many unexplored erogenous zones. For example, many women have an extremely sensitive area on their lower back. If a man can find this area and stimulate it continuously, he can easily and quickly arouse her sexual desire.
3.学会用眼神交流
All sexologists agree that communication is essential, but they also point out that too much verbal communication isn't necessarily a good thing, because men's ability to express emotions is really not that great. Therefore, lovers can learn to communicate with their eyes: closed eyes mean "I'm enjoying it," a slight frown means "this isn't good," and a blink means "I'm looking forward to it."
4.角色扮演
将自己打扮成速递员、护士、保姆、明星,这都会在中收到意想不到的效果。但对于男性来说,除非爱人明确表示喜欢被“强壮、粗野”地对待,不然别把自己弄得像个武士一样。一般情况下,女性都偏向于温柔、体贴的爱抚,而不是粗暴、直入主题。
5.玩星座游戏
These kinds of games may not be scientifically accurate, but they are very fun. Busy people can buy a book like "Sex and Horoscopes" and follow the instructions and steps to enjoy "sex" with their partner.