The 10 most annoying things men hate about women in bed

As the saying goes: Knowing yourself and your enemy will ensure victory in every battle, but to be honest, men rarely share or communicate with their intimate partners about matters in bed. However, men often "inadvertently" reveal them when chatting and bragging with their friends.

The editors sent out questionnaires to many male friends around them, taking advantage of the men around them being defenseless against their colleagues and friends, and asked them to find out the top 10 sexual behaviors that women hate the most in bed. The final survey results actually showed many answers that women would never expect...

TOP 1. Should I call or not?

Unexpectedly, "calling or not calling" is the main reason why men lose interest in sex.

They scream before they even touch her, they scream like crazy, they don't know how to scream, they scream just pretending... In short, it seems that no matter how you scream (or don't scream), it makes men feel annoyed or hypocritical.

The 33-year-old self-employed "Gumbe Bear" listed "screaming before touching" as the main reason for lack of sexual interest. He questioned whether women had practiced self-stimulation exercises. If they could get high on their own, why would they look for men? The 25-year-old self-employed "Pure Love Cell Phone Man" said that he couldn't stand crazy screaming the most, "Either you can scream in a rhythmic way, or moan in a more ecstatic way, screaming can't help you with sex!"

The anonymous 32-year-old man in the banking industry was dissatisfied with the pretentious moaning, saying, "It's rude and unnatural, and it completely violates the meaning of free sexual expression."

Perhaps men have not considered that women would "scream" so loudly, partly because they want to maintain their "self-esteem", but women who always think of others in everything do not realize that wanting to "do good" by screaming will make men question their ability to scream, and even ruin their sexual ability.

TOP 2. At any time?

Men hate women who act like nuns in bed. Many men directly fill in the term "playing dumb" on the questionnaire. They don't like women who have poor interaction and low cooperation, and they also hate women who have low cooperation, and they don't want to sleep with women who pretend to be pretentious.

32-year-old "Kaizi" in the media industry has deep feelings about the so-called "pretending", "Is it 'yes' or 'no'? Pretending to the point that people can't figure it out, I can't say 'stop' or 'not stop'!" Another 40-year-old TV reporter "Cheng Zili" said it better, "Like a dead fish, clearly being seen through what he was thinking, but still pretending to be reserved; not wanting a certain posture but not saying it, being coy, sex is for two people, not being raped, even if raped, people will still resist and struggle..., like a dead fish, then I'll just play with an inflatable doll." 31-year-old businessman "Lawrence" got to the point, "If there is no reaction... I'm sorry, my target is a person, not a hand, you should at least give me some face, right? If you don't change the posture, it's not easy for you to feel it, so don't blame me for not working hard, and who do I have to practice so many postures with?"

If you don't move, there's something wrong. Actually, there's something wrong with "automatic". The anonymous man said, "I love being on top, but I move without rhythm and roughly, and I think I can satisfy men."

TOP 3. Talk about irrelevant topics

In bed, besides "screaming", do you also talk about family matters? What men can't stand most is that women can "distract" themselves from doing housework during sex, and they are completely uninvolved and treat sex as a routine.

"Big Dog", a 28-year-old who works in sales, said, "During the process, she suddenly asked me if I helped her pick up clothes from the department store yesterday."; "Mad B", a 37-year-old who claimed to be scribbling at home, wrote that gossiping during sex damaged his brain nerves, so it would be strange if he didn't become soft.

Therefore, if a woman really has unfinished housework, wants to share work with others, or wants to tell gossip to others, she should never choose to do it in bed. Of course, in fact, even if a man is not in bed, he does not want to listen to your complaints anywhere else.

TOP 4. Body odor and bad breath

It is moral to take a shower, brush your teeth and rinse your mouth before going to bed. But what is hesitant is that most of those who do not abide by the above conditions are men. How can women also have this good habit?

30-year-old "Ai Fa" who works in the service marketing industry said that strong smells of alcohol and body odors are what make him lose interest in sex the most; 30-year-old TV reporter "Ying Bang Bang" raised the issue of bad breath, "She has bad breath and keeps asking me to kiss her." 35-year-old "David" had the harshest words about body odor, "Who wants to eat stinky tofu and do that?"

In order to no longer give men an excuse to dislike you, take a shower and brush your teeth and rinse your mouth before going to bed. If you have body odor, don't forget to spray some light perfume that men like to divert the smell.

TOP 5. Marriage? Pregnancy

When you are doing that, don't mention the things you are worried about, such as being worried about getting pregnant, when you are going to get married, etc. You know, these topics will not lead to any conclusion when you talk about them in normal times, so how can they lead to any conclusion in bed? Especially for a man who is trying hard to show his "ability", how should you respond?

"Xie Kouben", a 26-year-old public relations supervisor, said, "Halfway through, she asked me if I loved her?" Mr. Xie replied yes, but then he said, "When a man has sex, he might be thinking about Lin Chiling." "Shen Shen Kuai Re", a 36-year-old mass communications worker, said that it was too dry to bring up marriage in the middle of the process, "It's like pouring water on two mating dogs."

TOP 6. Watching TV

When it comes to making love, sometimes men may just like it and women may just do it to get by. However, when doing it, please do it genuinely and attentively. Don't do it while staring at TV. Where does this put the man's self-esteem?

"Pi", a 25-year-old soldier, mentioned that "it's really boring to watch TV and ignore people." Big Dog's experience was even more pitiful, "While we were doing it, (she) was watching TV and cleverly dodged my head to avoid being blocked." He finally consoled himself by saying, "Isn't she imagining me as Tom Cruise..." Oh, this... How embarrassing!

TOP 7. Yawning

This is another way for a man to figure out that you're just going through the motions.

The men who participated in the questionnaire survey did not pay much attention to "yawning", probably because this behavior has made them speechless, unable to even express their feelings.

The 25-year-old "Ah N" expressed the most painful feeling of men about yawning, "Is it still possible to stay hard even though I'm yawning?"

If you still love this man, don't express helplessness and boredom in bed. Although you may be really tired, even so, please yawn slightly where he can't see you, and then continue to pretend to be in the situation.

TOP 8. No makeup

You will be scared to death if you don't wear makeup, especially if you always put on perfect makeup in front of him, showing an invincible beauty. Without makeup, even if you are just an ordinary beauty, men will be overly frightened because of the "error", not to mention that in bed, when you are making love, it would be strange if they don't "lose color" when they see your face without eyebrows.

The solution is, if you really are the kind of person who looks very different before and after makeup, you should put on some light makeup before going to bed to show "politeness". Otherwise, before exercising, you can intentionally or unintentionally mention that you shaved your eyebrows because they are too thin, or that your face looks different after removing makeup, and make some little jokes about yourself. This way, the man who loves you will not mistakenly think he is hugging the wrong person when you hug him.

TOP 9. Farting

There is no country on earth that has laws that prohibit farting during sex, but farting can really ruin the mood and atmosphere.

Imagine two people are entangled with each other, hands and feet intertwined, and suddenly you fart. Where will the fart go? Therefore, farting is considered annoying by many men.

It's disgusting and disappointing. This is a man's protest against a woman farting in bed. I wonder if the man would feel worse if the woman told him to stop because she was going to the bathroom to fart.

TOP 10. Others

Every man’s complaints about sex are similar, but there are also individual likes and dislikes. It’s not about women’s cooperation with sex, but about women’s unique habits.

In terms of clothing: "tobey", a 23-year-old who works in planning, said that women wearing cartoon underwear would make him lose interest in sex; "Ray", a 31-year-old who works in the entertainment industry, thought it was worn-out underwear.

Emotional expressions: MARCO, a 29-year-old operations specialist, thought the other person was laughing all the time, how could he continue? "Big Brother Xiao", a 25-year-old professional soldier, pointed out that applying a facial mask made him unable to see the other person's expression, which was no different from a ghost.

In terms of speaking: calling someone by their wrong name is a mistake that must not be made during sex! A 29-year-old “A Ping” who works in marketing at a technology company said, “No matter how hot a girl is, it’s hard to ‘do’ with her. Not to mention that I’m not interested in her in bed, I don’t even want to answer her calls in the future!” Women must pay attention to this. (Rui Li Women’s Network)